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Struggling
as a single parent trying to raise my family on meager child support payments,
I remember feeling guilty because I had to work and be away from my family
daily. Luckily, I was able to change careers and become an elementary school
teacher which enabled me to have holidays and summers off with my children. A
job or career of any kind can take too much of your best energy while your
family only gets what’s left over. I admire those young people today who can
choose to be a stay at home parent because
they have a spouse to support their family.
While
having a career can be exciting and financially rewarding, seeing your child’s
first step or hearing their first word can not be equaled by work achievements
as important as they may be. I’ve always felt whenever I left a job that my
contributions were soon forgotten, while the time I invested in my children’s
growth and activities is everlasting. You can’t do it all. Too many of us try
to do that and only end up feeling guilty.
If you must work because of being single or in debt, make the best of your situation.
Try to figure out how to prevent work from interfering with your family’s
welfare and the relationships you want to build with each child and your
spouse, if you have one.
Relationships
take time and physical contact daily while your family is still at home. Later,
you can reach out electronically, if you live at a distance from family you may
have to rely on emails, phone calls, etc. to have a connection with grandchildren
or even your adult children once you’re retired. Check in now and then in person,
and inquire how they are doing. Express your love at the end of each contact.
Take time for connecting and relating. It’s the most important work in your
life whether you are male or female! NEXT TIME: Sending Value