It’s amazing how society’s standards change overtime
gradually. I remember while in my teens a movie BLUE MOON was rated R because it used the word seduced. That is so mild compared to the blatant sexuality
in today PG-13 movies or even news reports on TV that are broadcasted into our
homes. Should there be standards or rules? I guess it all depends on what
your goal is in raising children to be responsible citizens or wild reckless
rebels with no standards. I know which society I’d rather live in.
What
is a standard? The Encarta Encyclopedia says…A level of quality or
excellence attained by somebody or something that is accepted as the norm. Then the question comes…what is the NORM? It probably
depends on the community or country where you reside as what is acceptable or
not plus the family standards you accept and teach.
Then there is the issue of acceptable language in public,
especially with the name of deity. Some individuals relish profanity in language as freedom of expression. I have had several conversations with people whose verbal
communication has offended me. I’ve tried to point out how their use of certain
words affected me. All that I’ve spoken to were respectful and after my
explanation have modified their expressions while in my presence. I certainly
appreciate that sensitivity. At first, I thought others would be offended, but
for most people swearing is just an automatic habit they’ve picked up from
friends or family.
The
current equal rights battle is a PUZZLEMENT. Even our Supreme Court isn’t clear
on what is true or fair. Yes, no one should be judged by their choice of life
style, but do we want to teach that alternate partnerships are acceptable and
normal for our society? At the current time it is causing a huge divide among
those advocating an alternative life style, and those wanting to preserve
traditional marriage. I can see both sides’ views, but it seems to me what is
missing is the child’s viewpoint. The confusion in his/her mind depending on
their family background: being raised within a traditional marriage or in a
same sex partnership.