When we first meet someone, we form an impression of them that may or may not be true. In our church, we have a program where the men in twos go home teaching several families once a month and the women in twos visit teach several women also once a month. The purpose of these visits is to be shepherds of the flock, to give assistance, support and present a spiritual message. I've noticed how it takes time to get to really know the people we teach.
What we see in public or at church are the smiling best foot forward faces that we all put on. It is only by interacting and gaining trust with others that we come to truly know them-their heartaches, struggles and challenges. This month as I visit taught one of the ladies we see, she felt safe enough to share her heart and past hurts. That in turn, gave us as the teachers an opportunity to open our hearts and bond as friends. That process is quite interesting...making friendships. It requires that we first reach out and send value/love to another person and genuinely listen to them. TRUST and friendship is a by-product of taking the time to care about each other.
It's rare with our families to find those minutes to truly communicate in our fast paced lives and multimedia lives, but it's important as we patiently wait and pray for opportunities to talk heart to heart. Guess that's one reason why we have problems to humble us so we need each other and God who waits patiently for us to find time in our busy lives to approach Him with faith and trust. He will turn everything that we experience to our good. Reminds me of a scripture... Search diligently, be believing, and all things shall work together for your good. (D&C 90:24) A great promise!
