History holds many examples of how societies and families
have found solutions to their problems. Think back to the Great Depression, and
the world wars, etc. These times were full of tumult, anxiety and serious
problems that were not solved by people ignoring what was going on. It took
individuals with courage to stand up and be counted. To survive they worked
their way through challenging times, finding solutions.
We elect officials in our government to deal with
solving wide spread problems like: unemployment, discrimination, etc., but
within each family there are also personal trials to be dealt with; illness,
unemployment, discouragement, divorce, and death are just some issues that a normal
family has to face. It’s too easy to look at other supposedly successful
families and compare your family, not knowing the heartaches they are facing.
Judging and competing with others seem to be normal, but not helpful. Have a
compassionate attitude. Be there to give emotional support to others in your
own family, neighborhood, and community who need a hand.
The
recent tornados in Oklahoma are an example of extreme crises that can happen to
normal people. Sometimes all we can offer
is our prayers and donations to relief organizations. To come together as a nation in aiding others within or
outside of our country when relief is needed builds our own personal strength. In
these days of instant communication there is little excuse for not connecting
and reaching out to strengthen one another. Thinking outside the box of our own
little world can be helpful.
I
remember being stressed while watching the news of the tornado victims because
I was just recovering from a sudden flu attack and found myself without any
milk in the frig as I was fixing dinner. Then reality hit me as I realized
these people were victims who had their homes destroyed, lost all their
belongings and even family members in this terrible destruction. They had no
frigs or food or homes. Sometimes comparing ourselves with those who have less
can help us feel more compassionate and grateful for what we do have.
Each
day of life is a gift not to be taken lightly whether it is full of trials or
blessings. The same higher power weeps with those who mourn and cares for the
smallest problems we each have just as any loving parent would do. NEXT TIME:
Entitlement.