As my husband and I drove along the freeway the other day on
our way to visit family for the weekend, we noticed an overabundance of trash
along the sides of the road. Smashed paper cups with lids and straws still
stuck together, crumbled pop cans, dirty napkins, empty plastic bags, etc.
littered the sides of the road. Why we wondered would people throw their
garbage out the window of their car as if expecting others to come along later
to pick it up? What motivates the lack of pride in our environment that would
make anyone feel it’s okay to just toss his or her trash out the window?
Perhaps we should throw away our
trashy thoughts, and negative outbursts that can do more harm to others than
garbage does to our roadsides. This can happen at home, school, work or with
friends An angry sibling can lash out with negative criticisms or names like dummy or stupid,
which can then escalade into a physical fight or hurt feelings between family
members. Other subtle putdowns can be ignoring a friend or not inviting them to
join in group activities. TV shows are full of examples of bullying and putdowns that seem to be
common. News broadcasts tell of teen suicides from cyber bullying.
When
will it all stop? Not until each individual realizes the impact of trash that can escape from either your
hands or mouth so easily. Only awareness of the results, then taking
responsibility for changing behavior to be more positive can bring progress. Each person needs to analyze
his or her behavior and habits to see if some improvement is needed. Is it easy
to break a habit of trashy talking, criticizing, arguing or littering? No, but
it is possible.
Recycling
trash can have both positive and negative repercussions. If we recycle garbage
so it can be used again, that is productive. But if we continue reusing
negative habits such as name-calling
and criticisms, the final results
are destructive. Individuals involved can develop low self esteem or lack of
self worth because they start to believe what is being said.
Maybe it’s time to take a stand and
change our destructive patterns
of behavior whether it’s throwing trash along the highway or criticizing
another person. What is the final outcome you want? If it’s a clean environment
and happy relationships, then think first before you act or speak!
NEXT TIME: Change Begins with YOU.