Perception vs. REALITY?

A perception is not necessarily true but colored by our beliefs,

prejudices and experiences. The same situation could bring about

different reactions depending on individual perceptions.

A message sent with the kindness and regard could be

percieved as rude or discourteous by one individual and

differently by another, depending on their prior experiences.

I have a friend my age who calls everyone by "Honey" which

is a no no in my book having been called that by young

receptionists and assistants in deference to my age.

But she means it in the best of terms as a dear friend.

Same words, different perceptions and realities. Tell me

your thoughts about these two important words.